"When you ask a favor of a man, you create an emotional bond," Hussey explains. The "provide and protect" instinct is a relatively easy one to trigger. You can use this information to your advantage to flirt more effectively and help create a deeper connection between you and a new guy. According to him, men have four primal, emotional buttons that, when pushed, trigger a positive response. World-renowned relationship coach, New York Times best-selling author, and English dreamboat Matthew Hussey is like the real-life Hitch. Smitten Shy About Approaching Guys? This Subtle Flirting Move Works (Almost) Every Time DO: Opt instead to say, "I hope we're not interrupting a personal conversation." And prompt a story by asking if they're celebrating anything, or if they work nearby. And, yes, I cringed and considered live-tweeting at the same time. DON'T: Say, "I hope we're not interrupting a conversation on masturbation." Yes, one of the girls did say that. After mulling over the move (which was successful, by the way), I came up with a few dos and don'ts for trying it: DO: Walk up with confidence and ask if you could join them. Naturally, I took note of their conversation. Bold, considering it wasn't communal seating. That's when two girls approached the two attractive men at the table next to me and asked if they could share the table with them. I was at a happy hour in Manhattan, drinks were inexpensive, and the weather was perfect (which of course meant all of the bar's outdoor tables were taken).
Want to actually meet a guy at a bar instead of just making eyes at him all night over vodka tonics? Take note-like I did-of the bold move I witnessed two girls make recently.
Smitten How to Meet a Guy at a Bar: Try This Bold-but-Not-Aggressive Move
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